Cost of Homeschooling

Often children who are in alternative school settings, including home-schooled who have special needs, at least in the US, are still recieving therapies and services from the local school district and/or other governmentally funded services. The only children I have seen mentioned who are not doing so are those whose disabilities require compensation only in learning environment, such as children with ADHD, LD, and some forms of mental retardation. Since generally he only accomodation these children need is additional, one-on-one or small group instruction, and since homeschooling provides this innately, naturally these children can be well served in the homeschooling setting PROVIDED:

The parent has the patience needed to provide a child with the special needs education. Not all parents have this. My parents raised two children with special needs-I have cerebral palsy, and my brother is ADHD. My mother, who is a homeschooling advocate, has made the comment repeatedly that while she probably could have homeschooled me, she probably would have ended up abusing my brother if she hadn’t had that break-she needed all the patience she had just for the afternoon and evening hours.

 

For children with other disabilities, the difference in progress which can be made with appropriate therapies can’t be overstated. It is much more efficient for a speech therapist to see children at school, where many brief sessions can be done, throughout the week (which is often what is needed) then for the therapist to go to the children or for the children to come to the therapist, necessitating transportation. It’s simply not a cost-effective solution for parents to drive a child to therapy for, say 15 minute sessions daily, and it’s not as good in many forms of therapy for the child to have only one longer session a week. While parents can do a great deal of teaching themselves, and often have to learn a great deal with a special needs child, they cannot and should not try to be the speech therapist, physical therapist, occupational therapist etc.

 

Life in a Children’s Home

Basically there are few controls. We had some training which was designed for these homes (I work in a Res. Special needs education School) and it was horrible, how to get out of being strangled, hair pulls, thrown to the ground, kicked, thumped, jumped on, full restraints… you name it. I’ve only been kicked where I work and that was playing football – and an accident (you can tell). This is in fourteen years.

I had to role play dealing with a drunken violent fifteen year old girl coming in swearing and shouting and hitting and kicking. I remember thinking that in that environment I’d simply leave. One thing the trainers told us was that if something real bad happens (and their idea of real bad is nothing like ours) and they are arrested or dealt with by the Police they basically come back to the home (unless, presumably, it’s knifing someone I presume). The effect this must have on the staff who work there must be horrible.

The problem is that there are few controls and the children have the upper hand. They are all well aware if they open their mouths and shout abuse they will cause mayhem for the staff, this paralyses the staff completely.

Home Studies

In general, the following information is usually included in the adoption home study: Personal and family background, Family configuration and childhood experiences of each adoptive parent, feelings about their parents and childhood, significant experiences for each adoptive parent; sibling and family relationships, past and present, Marriage and family relationships, handle stress; significant experiences within the marriage; history of prior marriage(s) and reason(s) for divorce.

 Desire to adopt, Motivation for adoption; attitude of extended family toward adoption; feelings toward the birth parents of the adopted child; attitudes about open and closed adoption, search and reunion; feelings about and plans for helping the adoptee understand adoption. Expectations of the adopted child, Education plans, temperament, how parents will handle adoption issues, child training and discipline, Feelings about infertility (if applicable), Parenting and integration of child into home.

 Description of any parenting experience had by the prospective parents; parenting style and philosophy of discipline; adjustment of birth or other children to previously adopted children. Verification that the home is a healthy, safe environment in which to raise a child; desires of adoptive parents and recommendations of social worker regarding the age, sex, characteristics and special needs education of children best served by the family.

INFO SNEPARENTALK

 The Special Needs Education Network is a service provided under the auspices of the SchoolNet project, a cooperative initiative of Canada’s provincial, territorial, and federal governments, in consultation with educators, universities, colleges and industry.

You will tell that there is hundreds of parent education courses, workshops, seminars and symposia offered to parents,  teachers and therapists of special needs children, from coast to coast, every year. True enough; but attending these seminars often requires taking time off work, arranging for a baby-sitter, travelling sometimes long-distances and investing in ever-escalating registration fees and course materials, when time, money and baby-sitters are already often scarce.

SNE (pronounced “es-en-ee”) provides Internet services specific to parents, teachers, schools, and other professionals, individuals, groups, and organizations involved in the education of students with special needs. Special needs” refers to students who require a level of specialized services (who do not function in what may be considered to be a normal range of activity) in one or more of the spheres of learning

The Special Needs Education Network recognizes that the design, implementation, and management of educational planning for children with special needs often requires intensive multi-disciplinary collaboration extending throughout the school system and beyond, including care providers and a variety of individuals and organizations from many different professional fields.

Home Schooling and Special Needs

Home schooling and special needs education supports can be co-ordinated to meet the needs of a child. The reason for home schooling is that special education resource rooms are not available in our elementary schools. The social situation is also not a very positive one and is causing us quite a bit of grief.

According to the School Act, the district is responsible for making sure a child has access to an education. The approved provincial curriculum which is geared for “typical” children is not appropriate for child’s education. The special education resources are designed specifically to each individual child. The ministry of education does not approve or even evaluate the effectiveness of learning resources for children

The discussion I had with the school principal was very positive and co-operative.  We both agreed that indeed home schooling would provide my son with the necessary one on one needed to improve his academics. I have been told by the ministry of education - special education branch, that the school district might argue that they are only obligated to providing me with the regular and approved curriculum. However, that would not be appropriate for my child. I maintain that the district is responsible for providing my child with the appropriate special education resources.

NO PARENT SUPPORT IN MOST CASES

A majority of students are either physically or verbally abused by their parents.  This is a common practice in their culture. The school has tried to hold education classes for the parents but can not force the parents (the ones that are in need of this service) to come and learn positive ways of dealing with their children. The parents are not in turn following any of the agreed upon IEP plans or behavioral contracts. It is a nightmare. The special needs education field is so new to these people.

There is a shortage of people who know anything, even the basics.  Sounds like you’re just going to have to start at the beginning and hope that people will follow your lead.  The abuse part sounds horrible.  Just like this teacher, she didn’t connect the behavior with the disability.  She just thought that the child had control over himself.  They probably don’t have early intervention programs – that is where i learned all the basics of my son’s disabilities. There has to be some organization geared toward educating everyone who deals with the children.
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TRIPOD

Special Needs Education provides integration/inclusion between hearing children and deaf children. Then, I hope to know some information about TRIPOD. ”This is a free service to supply parents of hearing-immpaired children with the clear guidance that they seek in raising these children. Dr. Carl Kirchner was the leader and continues as the key person in TRIPOD, INC., having generated impressive private funding for this vital work”  That Memorandum was signed by Frederick Sachs, Associate Commissioner for Program Operations, United States Department of Education.

Fundamentally you are there for all the children, and not just the one. If one child is so disruptive, all the other children suffer, and lose their education. Equally the example the child sets for others is not good, and can influence others. That was the outcome of the discussion. I felt that to exclude a child, basically destroys the child, for he will probably not be helped.

Have you ever considered something like circle time, which helps children express their feelings in a positive way. It demands a lot from the teachers, but it has been shown to work with behavior problems, which may be different from EBD problems.

 

 

New WWW Project: Follow your Dreams – Stay in School

Twenty-six Grade 6 students in the Late French Immersion program at Fairview Elementary School in Maple Ridge, B.C. are participating in a special initiative to encourage Canadian kids to “Follow your Dreams: Stay in School”. The students began the project by researching various careers that matched their interests and abilities. They decided that their career dreams could only come true if they stayed in school.

By publishing essays and poetry in conjunction with the development of the Special Needs Education Network (SNE) ”Resources for Youth” project, they hope to spread their message to students across Canada and the global community.

In addition to the student submissions, visitors can also browse  special letters sent in by prominent Canadians, including the Prime Minister of Canada, the Premier of British Columbia, and Canadian Astronauts. Visitors are encouraged to provide feedback, and to help build the “Resources for Youth” and “Resources for Teachers of Youth at Risk” projects.